Mens guide to women and dating


You might see a bigger picture – a picture of what he really needs.I had a girlfriend who was very flirtatious by nature.And now, a little over a year into the relationship you’re disappointed that he’s still the same guy… People do this all the time, but it doesn’t make it right or sane.



When you can recognize what he “gets” from his behavior and you can truly understand him as a man, you might not take his actions personally anymore.But I can’t think of a time where the insecurity of one partner inspired a change in the other partner.Especially when the insecure partner isn’t willing to walk away regardless of whether or not they get what they want.The problem is that guys know a woman’s bluff from a mile away…

and the moment you start bluffing about how much you’re willing to tolerate, he knows you’ll tolerate just about anything. Because if you’re afraid enough to lie about your limits, then it’s pretty likely that you don’t actually have limits you’re willing to enforce. Fear that this guy is the one true love of their life.

There are times where one person might inspire change in another person, but it’s because the other person wanted the change themselves as well.